Sunday, September 20, 2015
Brothers
For all the times they throw things at each other, hit each other and yell "Mom, insert child's, is bugging me/touching me/looking at me, etc... This morning they are best friends. Playing together. Konnor set up a ramp for Owen to ramp cars and explained how to transform his Rescue Bots, he got Owen his favorite snack of chocolate covered pretzels (and yes I let him eat them at 9 am b/c it was so sweet) and Owen hasn't hit or thrown anything at Konnor all morning. These are the moments I will remember. The moments where two strangers became brothers. The moments where we can actually see God's love right in front of our eyes.
Sunday, September 13, 2015
Attachment and Trust
Exciting things are happening in this house in regards to bonding and attachment. It's been 4 months and 2 days since this precious little boy was placed in our arms. I can't remember what our life was even like before we became a family of four. I can't wait to tell you what has been happening, but first I have to give you a little background so you will fully understand the magnitude of these events.
The key to attachment is trust. Most people think of trust strictly in the romantic relationship capacity, but the trust of a child is completely different. It's fragile and needs constant reassurance to build into a stable force in a child's life. Last summer I injured my rotator cuff. As I did physical therapy the therapist kept stressing the importance of doing my daily exercises. I reassured her that I would absolutely be doing my exercises as I would soon be wearing a toddler in a Ergo full time and would need my shoulder's to be up to par. She gave me a confused look and so I gave her this brief summary: your children knew from day one that you would provide for their every need. When they cried for hunger you fed them, when they were wet you changed their diaper, when they fell you kissed their owies. My children never had this sense of security before joining our family. Their needs were met not based on their actual need at the moment, but on the facilities schedule. When this happens you learn to not expect help so then why ask for help.
We often hear from well meaning people "oh they were adopted so young they will be fine." They are right, my boys will be fine, but the age of adoption doesn't dictate the lasting effects. Those first months of life, the ones where they learned not to trust, not to depend on anyone and not to let their guard down, helped to shape their brains and personalities. It dictates their responses to different situations. It effects their ability to trust and therefore, develop strong attachments. This is why we are so particular about people not holding Owen and why we don't allow others to feed/bath, etc.. him. He has to learn that we will provide for his needs. He has to learn that we can be trusted. It's not a matter of just recognizing us as Mama and Papa. He has to know that being Mama and Papa means safety and trust.
Ok that is seriously a watered down lesson on attachment in adoption, but I think it gives you the basics so you can appreciate these next few things: In the last week 3 REALLY AWESOME things have happened.
1) For the first time ever Owen gave me an unprompted kiss. He would give them if asked or in response to me kissing on him, but the other day he was sitting on my lap and just leaned forward and planted the sweetest little snot included kiss. He looked so proud of himself and this unprompted show of affection from him brought this Mama to tears. This is BIG people. He wanted to show me affection not because he thought it was the expected response, but because he wanted to kiss his Mama. It's BIG, trust me.
2) He has started asking for food and drink. Even going to far as to get in the pantry and show us exactly what he wants!!!! Oh my Heavens I can't even tell you how exciting this is!! He has NEVER asked for food or drink. Whenever we get something for Konnor we always offer him too (which is like every hour b/c Konnor is in a growth spurt and eats nonstop), but he has never independently asked for something. Right now it is a trust building exercise b/c half the time he takes one bite and moves on (don't worry I save it for later), but he just wants to know that no matter how often he asks he will get something to eat. Yay!!!! Maybe with this newfound independence we will start to see some growth.
3) He has started saying "Owie" and wants kisses on his oweis!!!!! Guys! I just can't even!!!!! This is a child whose knees are perpetually bleeding and he never notices. A child who has had multiple hospitalizations, 3rd degree burns and 2 surgeries all without a Mama to make the owies all better. He has good reason to not notice when he gets hurt, but here is this amazing little boy asking me to kiss his toes or fingers or hand or arm or head, etc... We have a lot of imaginary owies right now, but I kiss every stinking one of them, b/c I want him to know that no matter how big or small Mama will take care of him.
If you read this far I hope you understand the magnitude of these events and why we are so excited. Attachment is a long process. Sometimes there are giant leaps like above and sometimes it is a smaller event that you don't even realize until you reflect later. They all matter. They all count. They all make for a strong lasting foundation for our babies. I can't take away the hurt from the first 18 months of his life, but I can give him reason to trust. I can give him that over and over again until one day we will look back and not even realize that our relationship was ever any other way.
The key to attachment is trust. Most people think of trust strictly in the romantic relationship capacity, but the trust of a child is completely different. It's fragile and needs constant reassurance to build into a stable force in a child's life. Last summer I injured my rotator cuff. As I did physical therapy the therapist kept stressing the importance of doing my daily exercises. I reassured her that I would absolutely be doing my exercises as I would soon be wearing a toddler in a Ergo full time and would need my shoulder's to be up to par. She gave me a confused look and so I gave her this brief summary: your children knew from day one that you would provide for their every need. When they cried for hunger you fed them, when they were wet you changed their diaper, when they fell you kissed their owies. My children never had this sense of security before joining our family. Their needs were met not based on their actual need at the moment, but on the facilities schedule. When this happens you learn to not expect help so then why ask for help.
We often hear from well meaning people "oh they were adopted so young they will be fine." They are right, my boys will be fine, but the age of adoption doesn't dictate the lasting effects. Those first months of life, the ones where they learned not to trust, not to depend on anyone and not to let their guard down, helped to shape their brains and personalities. It dictates their responses to different situations. It effects their ability to trust and therefore, develop strong attachments. This is why we are so particular about people not holding Owen and why we don't allow others to feed/bath, etc.. him. He has to learn that we will provide for his needs. He has to learn that we can be trusted. It's not a matter of just recognizing us as Mama and Papa. He has to know that being Mama and Papa means safety and trust.
Ok that is seriously a watered down lesson on attachment in adoption, but I think it gives you the basics so you can appreciate these next few things: In the last week 3 REALLY AWESOME things have happened.
1) For the first time ever Owen gave me an unprompted kiss. He would give them if asked or in response to me kissing on him, but the other day he was sitting on my lap and just leaned forward and planted the sweetest little snot included kiss. He looked so proud of himself and this unprompted show of affection from him brought this Mama to tears. This is BIG people. He wanted to show me affection not because he thought it was the expected response, but because he wanted to kiss his Mama. It's BIG, trust me.
2) He has started asking for food and drink. Even going to far as to get in the pantry and show us exactly what he wants!!!! Oh my Heavens I can't even tell you how exciting this is!! He has NEVER asked for food or drink. Whenever we get something for Konnor we always offer him too (which is like every hour b/c Konnor is in a growth spurt and eats nonstop), but he has never independently asked for something. Right now it is a trust building exercise b/c half the time he takes one bite and moves on (don't worry I save it for later), but he just wants to know that no matter how often he asks he will get something to eat. Yay!!!! Maybe with this newfound independence we will start to see some growth.
3) He has started saying "Owie" and wants kisses on his oweis!!!!! Guys! I just can't even!!!!! This is a child whose knees are perpetually bleeding and he never notices. A child who has had multiple hospitalizations, 3rd degree burns and 2 surgeries all without a Mama to make the owies all better. He has good reason to not notice when he gets hurt, but here is this amazing little boy asking me to kiss his toes or fingers or hand or arm or head, etc... We have a lot of imaginary owies right now, but I kiss every stinking one of them, b/c I want him to know that no matter how big or small Mama will take care of him.
If you read this far I hope you understand the magnitude of these events and why we are so excited. Attachment is a long process. Sometimes there are giant leaps like above and sometimes it is a smaller event that you don't even realize until you reflect later. They all matter. They all count. They all make for a strong lasting foundation for our babies. I can't take away the hurt from the first 18 months of his life, but I can give him reason to trust. I can give him that over and over again until one day we will look back and not even realize that our relationship was ever any other way.
Saturday, August 29, 2015
Everyday Life
We are finding our new kind of normal now. I started back to work on July 28 (3 days a week) and Nana (my Mom) is watching the boys. Konnor has a rough time with Mama going back to work after having me around 24/7 for 3 months. Owen fussed a little and is clingy in the evenings, but overall the transition has gone really well.
Owen is still a super picky eater, but we are making some progress. He will now drink a vanilla Pediasure daily with lots of water. He is still not a big fan of other milk drinks, but occasionally I can get a few ounces of Vit. D in him. Other than that it is pretty hit and miss of what he will eat. We just keep offering. He finally gained a little and is up about 2 lbs and 1 inch since Gotcha Day. I think he is in a growth spurt though b/c he looks bigger to me and I feel like he is starting to lose some of his "baby face." : (
He is still a pretty good sleeper, but has been waking up about once nightly b/c of mean ol teeth coming in. He has become very chatty the last few weeks. He can say "Mama,"(oh melt my heart), "a variation of Papa," "Uh-Oh," "Meow," and "more" and a few other words that we can recognize through the baby babble. He won't be able to make a lot of sound until they repair his palate in October so we are pretty happy that he is talking this much already. He got ear tubes on Aug. 27 so hopefully this will improve his hearing and he will be all set for his palate repair.
Overall everyone is doing great. Owen is a laid back little guy that loves to laugh. He is still in the "I must throw everything" phase but he is getting better at being gentle. Otherwisewe are just having tons of fun. He still loves to try to do everything Konnor does which means he is catching up to some of those developmental milestones quickly. He is on the move all day every day just like his big brother.
Owen is still a super picky eater, but we are making some progress. He will now drink a vanilla Pediasure daily with lots of water. He is still not a big fan of other milk drinks, but occasionally I can get a few ounces of Vit. D in him. Other than that it is pretty hit and miss of what he will eat. We just keep offering. He finally gained a little and is up about 2 lbs and 1 inch since Gotcha Day. I think he is in a growth spurt though b/c he looks bigger to me and I feel like he is starting to lose some of his "baby face." : (
He is still a pretty good sleeper, but has been waking up about once nightly b/c of mean ol teeth coming in. He has become very chatty the last few weeks. He can say "Mama,"(oh melt my heart), "a variation of Papa," "Uh-Oh," "Meow," and "more" and a few other words that we can recognize through the baby babble. He won't be able to make a lot of sound until they repair his palate in October so we are pretty happy that he is talking this much already. He got ear tubes on Aug. 27 so hopefully this will improve his hearing and he will be all set for his palate repair.
Overall everyone is doing great. Owen is a laid back little guy that loves to laugh. He is still in the "I must throw everything" phase but he is getting better at being gentle. Otherwisewe are just having tons of fun. He still loves to try to do everything Konnor does which means he is catching up to some of those developmental milestones quickly. He is on the move all day every day just like his big brother.
Saturday, July 11, 2015
2 months
2 months. That's all it's been, but it feels like forever. I know it sounds strange, but I just can't honestly recall with any kind of clarity what our life was like before Owen joined our family. Maybe a little less hectic. The grocery bill was cheaper. Beyond that I feel like he has always been here. Our hearts and lives are fuller because of this tiny little person.
He was originally scheduled for surgery to repair his cleft palate and get ear tubes on July 2. Mark and I decided to cancel the surgery and reschedule to October. It would have been his 3rd hospitalization and 3rd surgery in 10 months. I had a lot of anxiety about this surgery and we just felt that he wasn't ready yet. Thank goodness b/c what would have been 36 hrs post op he spent 36 hrs vomiting. It may have been the antibiotics he was on for his ear infection causing it, but I doubt it as the vomiting has resolved. So we are just pushing forward and will do the surgery in October.
July 4th both boys got to see their very first parade. We headed to Taylorville to see both their Papa and their Grandpa march in the 4th of July parade. Owen thought it was all great fun and clapped a lot, while Konnor was especially fond of the parade candy and the fire trucks.
Other than that things are pretty chill. I am still home with the boys for another 2 weeks so we are pretty much just working on a schedule, swimming and playing. I love, love, love being home with these two guys and am just so sad at even thinking of going back to work. I love what I do, but nothing is ever going to be as rewarding to me as watching them grow and thrive each day.
The boys still get along fairly well. Owen is getting more adventurous. He follows Konnor everywhere and tries to do everything Konnor does. It is really cute. I know one day that will give me gray hair and you will need to remind me that I said it was cute, but for now it's adorable. The only time we really have a problem is when Owen is throwing Konnor's monster trucks (Owen's favorite pastime is to throw anything and everything in site) or reading as Konnor is afraid Owen will tear the pages on his books. I am still in awe of how well these two have adjusted to each other. There are little things, but nothing out of the ordinary for siblings.
Owen is still a pretty picky eater. He is branching out now a little more and we can add several flavors of Greek yogurt, ice cream, just about anything crunchy (chips/crackers) and cheese to the list of likes. We have managed to go 2 whole days with no rice. He is fond of pasta as well, but either plain or with a light white sauce. He doesn't care for red sauce. He loves water, but we are still struggling to get any type of milk product in him. We'll get there eventually. He is trying something new every day and that is really all I can ask.
He was originally scheduled for surgery to repair his cleft palate and get ear tubes on July 2. Mark and I decided to cancel the surgery and reschedule to October. It would have been his 3rd hospitalization and 3rd surgery in 10 months. I had a lot of anxiety about this surgery and we just felt that he wasn't ready yet. Thank goodness b/c what would have been 36 hrs post op he spent 36 hrs vomiting. It may have been the antibiotics he was on for his ear infection causing it, but I doubt it as the vomiting has resolved. So we are just pushing forward and will do the surgery in October.
July 4th both boys got to see their very first parade. We headed to Taylorville to see both their Papa and their Grandpa march in the 4th of July parade. Owen thought it was all great fun and clapped a lot, while Konnor was especially fond of the parade candy and the fire trucks.
Other than that things are pretty chill. I am still home with the boys for another 2 weeks so we are pretty much just working on a schedule, swimming and playing. I love, love, love being home with these two guys and am just so sad at even thinking of going back to work. I love what I do, but nothing is ever going to be as rewarding to me as watching them grow and thrive each day.
The boys still get along fairly well. Owen is getting more adventurous. He follows Konnor everywhere and tries to do everything Konnor does. It is really cute. I know one day that will give me gray hair and you will need to remind me that I said it was cute, but for now it's adorable. The only time we really have a problem is when Owen is throwing Konnor's monster trucks (Owen's favorite pastime is to throw anything and everything in site) or reading as Konnor is afraid Owen will tear the pages on his books. I am still in awe of how well these two have adjusted to each other. There are little things, but nothing out of the ordinary for siblings.
Owen is still a pretty picky eater. He is branching out now a little more and we can add several flavors of Greek yogurt, ice cream, just about anything crunchy (chips/crackers) and cheese to the list of likes. We have managed to go 2 whole days with no rice. He is fond of pasta as well, but either plain or with a light white sauce. He doesn't care for red sauce. He loves water, but we are still struggling to get any type of milk product in him. We'll get there eventually. He is trying something new every day and that is really all I can ask.
Monday, June 15, 2015
5 weeks
5 weeks ago today we were blessed beyond measure when we became the parents of another amazing little boy. He has filled our life with so much joy. His smiles are contagious and you can't help but join in when he laughs. I will never know what made us worthy of two such amazing kids, but we will forever be thankful. It's not without challenges. Owen was 18 months old when he came to us. 18 months worth of experiences. He already has his own little personality and a stubborn streak a mile wide, but we are having such fun learning who he is and what he likes.
Konnor is still doing well being a big brother. It's not as exciting to him as it first was, but he is still a great helper. He is constantly asking when we can go back for "another baby Owen."
Here are some fun facts from the last few weeks:
-Owen took his first steps on May 28 exactly one week after coming home, and has not stopped walking since.
-He is still a pretty picky eater, but we are making a few strides here so we will just keep taking it one day at a time. Rice is still a staple, but today he ate 1 1/2 banana so I count that as a win since he hates fruit.
-He is soooo a water baby. Loves bath, and when I tell him it is time to get out and hold out my hands he turns away from me and flattens against the farthest wall to stay in the tub. We are going swimming about every other day right now and this is right up his alley too.
-He still prefers to be held, but he is getting better at being down for short periods of time. We'll get there in time. Now that he is down a little more he is starting to play a little more. He LOVES music and the pretend telephone. He also likes balls and rolling cars.
-The carseat is growing on him for very short car rides. I am not looking forward to the 6 hrs each way trip to Cincinnati in a few weeks. I foresee a lot of stops along the way.
-He has no fear left of Baxter and in fact has started actively go to him to pet him.
May 27 we got an email from out in China coordinator. Owen had a note left with him when he was abandoned. I was able to have it translated and while the details are for him, I can tell you that it was from a member of his Birth Family and gave us a lot of insight into the circumstances surrounding his abandonment. I cried. A LOT! This is the most precious gift and I can't wait until he is old enough to understand the importance of this note. I pray for them. I pray for both our boys birth families. I can't even begin to imagine the depth of their pain as they had to make the decision that their child would be better off without them. I will never know their names, but I see their faces everytime I hug my boys, kiss them goodnight or wipe their tears. These people on the other side of the world, that have no names I can call them by, are every bit as important to me as these precious boys. They choose life for my Sons. They choose Love and Hope and Mercy. I have no words I could say to them to that would adequately explain my love for these children that were born to another Mother, but we pray for them. Every night we pray for their health, happiness and peace.
Wednesday, May 27, 2015
Home
The first 6 days
We have kept the first week home pretty low key. Essentially survival mode due to jet lag. I am happy to say everyone has been fed, bathed and slept (even if it is at unusual times and intervals).
Overall things are going beautifully. Both boys are adjusting really well other than sleep. The first couple nights we saw 2 and 3 a wake ups, but today we saw a 4 and 5 am wake up so Yahooo!!! We are headed in the right direction. Konnor started back to school on Tuesday which I think helped. He got to venture to his Konnor's soccer game Tuesday night and he is really not sure about the whole grass thing. Essentially he wants no part of that green stuff. I hate to break it to him, but most of our summer is outside so we have some work to do : )
We haven't had any visitors since Friday morning when my Mom left. Owen had started to pull away from Mark a little bit so we needed to really buckle down and reinforce their bond. This morning though he got up with Mark, had breakfast and played all while Konnor and I slept another hour so we are moving in the right direction. We did have a prompt care visit Sunday for Konnor (splinters from a stick--see I told you outside time was a must), which then lead to a Target visit for some much needed necessities. Thankfully we went late a night and Target was very quiet so Owen did well.
Owen really is doing wonderfully. He is such a joy. I suspicion that his Foster Mom held him A LOT so he doesn't like to be put down, but we are making some strides in this area. For the most part we don't mind holding him right now because it reaffirms our bond with him, but let's be honest, there are just some things you can't do with an 18 month old on your hip. Although I am getting very proficient at getting things done with an ERGO on. Some things are tricky, but for the most part it can be done.
Owen is quite the stinker. He loves to smile and has an adorable laugh that you just can't help but join in on. He is a very picky eater and I suspicion has the spine of a cat based on the way he can twist to get away from the spoon. Mostly oatmeal, rice and formula keeping him going right now. We are trying new foods daily and finding that for the most part he will eat about anything (except fruits) if you dice it small enough and mix it with rice. I have gotten homemade sausage gravy in him a couple times and he likes to pick up cheerios and shredded cheese off his plate. Other than those few things we are lucky to get a few bites of anything else in him.
We didn't leave the house until Tuesday. It is going to take awhile for Owen to realize this is Home and not another hotel. He is having great fun exploring and getting to know his new surroundings. Tuesday we took Konnor to school and I have never seen a little boy so excited to show off a new sibling. He couldn't wait to tell the Principal, his Teachers, the Bus driver and anyone else who would listen about his trip and his new baby brother. He is so proud. In the afternoon Owen had his first physical with the Pediatrician. He is 20 lbs and 29.5 inches (4% and 1%). Basically he is a little dude, but we already knew that so no biggie. Overall the Pediatrician said that considering he looks really good and is much further along than she would have anticipated. We still have a long way to go, but given time we will get caught up to where we need to be. Unfortunately he also got 6 shots and blood work. Boo!!! He is handling it well, but a little fussy.
Siblings: I honestly never in a million years could have anticipated how well Konnor has adjusted to being a big brother. He loves Owen and constantly wants to know where he is and what he is doing. Mark and I have had to readjust our parenting a little and make our first sentence to Konnor "what/why are you doing that." He is constantly trying to help (seriously love this kiddo) and sometimes it just doesn't come across as helping so we are working on him asking to help first so we can direct a little bit. Otherwise it is so sweet how much he wants to do for Owen. If Owen fusses he instantly runs to get whatever it is he thinks Owen needs. He will tell me "Owen's not gonna like that, Owen may cry." (Let's just say diaper changes and carseats are not Owen's favorite things : ) There have been a couple little pushes or pulls, but nothing major and nothing out of the ordinary for the age. We have also started to tell Konnor that if he needs some Mama/Papa time he just needs to tell us. We were working on recognizing emotions prior to becoming a Big Brother so this has really given him an opportunity to blossom and work on this skill. The truth is he is an amazing brother and we couldn't be prouder of how he has reacted to all this change. Owen just watches Konnor and laughs. These two are going to give me so many gray hairs, but I will love every single minute of it.
We have kept the first week home pretty low key. Essentially survival mode due to jet lag. I am happy to say everyone has been fed, bathed and slept (even if it is at unusual times and intervals).
Overall things are going beautifully. Both boys are adjusting really well other than sleep. The first couple nights we saw 2 and 3 a wake ups, but today we saw a 4 and 5 am wake up so Yahooo!!! We are headed in the right direction. Konnor started back to school on Tuesday which I think helped. He got to venture to his Konnor's soccer game Tuesday night and he is really not sure about the whole grass thing. Essentially he wants no part of that green stuff. I hate to break it to him, but most of our summer is outside so we have some work to do : )
We haven't had any visitors since Friday morning when my Mom left. Owen had started to pull away from Mark a little bit so we needed to really buckle down and reinforce their bond. This morning though he got up with Mark, had breakfast and played all while Konnor and I slept another hour so we are moving in the right direction. We did have a prompt care visit Sunday for Konnor (splinters from a stick--see I told you outside time was a must), which then lead to a Target visit for some much needed necessities. Thankfully we went late a night and Target was very quiet so Owen did well.
Owen really is doing wonderfully. He is such a joy. I suspicion that his Foster Mom held him A LOT so he doesn't like to be put down, but we are making some strides in this area. For the most part we don't mind holding him right now because it reaffirms our bond with him, but let's be honest, there are just some things you can't do with an 18 month old on your hip. Although I am getting very proficient at getting things done with an ERGO on. Some things are tricky, but for the most part it can be done.
Owen is quite the stinker. He loves to smile and has an adorable laugh that you just can't help but join in on. He is a very picky eater and I suspicion has the spine of a cat based on the way he can twist to get away from the spoon. Mostly oatmeal, rice and formula keeping him going right now. We are trying new foods daily and finding that for the most part he will eat about anything (except fruits) if you dice it small enough and mix it with rice. I have gotten homemade sausage gravy in him a couple times and he likes to pick up cheerios and shredded cheese off his plate. Other than those few things we are lucky to get a few bites of anything else in him.
We didn't leave the house until Tuesday. It is going to take awhile for Owen to realize this is Home and not another hotel. He is having great fun exploring and getting to know his new surroundings. Tuesday we took Konnor to school and I have never seen a little boy so excited to show off a new sibling. He couldn't wait to tell the Principal, his Teachers, the Bus driver and anyone else who would listen about his trip and his new baby brother. He is so proud. In the afternoon Owen had his first physical with the Pediatrician. He is 20 lbs and 29.5 inches (4% and 1%). Basically he is a little dude, but we already knew that so no biggie. Overall the Pediatrician said that considering he looks really good and is much further along than she would have anticipated. We still have a long way to go, but given time we will get caught up to where we need to be. Unfortunately he also got 6 shots and blood work. Boo!!! He is handling it well, but a little fussy.
Siblings: I honestly never in a million years could have anticipated how well Konnor has adjusted to being a big brother. He loves Owen and constantly wants to know where he is and what he is doing. Mark and I have had to readjust our parenting a little and make our first sentence to Konnor "what/why are you doing that." He is constantly trying to help (seriously love this kiddo) and sometimes it just doesn't come across as helping so we are working on him asking to help first so we can direct a little bit. Otherwise it is so sweet how much he wants to do for Owen. If Owen fusses he instantly runs to get whatever it is he thinks Owen needs. He will tell me "Owen's not gonna like that, Owen may cry." (Let's just say diaper changes and carseats are not Owen's favorite things : ) There have been a couple little pushes or pulls, but nothing major and nothing out of the ordinary for the age. We have also started to tell Konnor that if he needs some Mama/Papa time he just needs to tell us. We were working on recognizing emotions prior to becoming a Big Brother so this has really given him an opportunity to blossom and work on this skill. The truth is he is an amazing brother and we couldn't be prouder of how he has reacted to all this change. Owen just watches Konnor and laughs. These two are going to give me so many gray hairs, but I will love every single minute of it.
Saturday, May 23, 2015
Headed Home!!!!
Wed. May 20, 2015
We boarded our plane to come home. It was almost 13 hours and the boys did awesome. A little meltdown from Owen in the beginning and a little one from Konnor in the end, but let's be honest, Mommy wanted a meltdown to after sitting on a plane that long. Owen slept 8 hours of the flight and Konnor a good 6 so it really wasn't all that bad.
We landed in LA and raced through customs. I may or may not have burst into tears when the customs officer handed us back our passports, looked at Owen and said "Welcome Home." Maybe just a few tears. We opted to stay the night in LA since it was 9 by the time we got done with customs. We headed to the hotel, grabbed some expensive hotel food, calmed our soooo done with it boys down and headed to bed. The next morning we boarded the plane that would bring us to St. Louis. Both boys slept the entire flight (maybe b/c they got up at 2). My Mom met us at the airport, my friend/fellow adoptive Mama Karrie took homecoming pictures for us and we headed home. Mark's parents met us at the house and we all got to visit for a little bit before crashing hard.
More to come.....
We boarded our plane to come home. It was almost 13 hours and the boys did awesome. A little meltdown from Owen in the beginning and a little one from Konnor in the end, but let's be honest, Mommy wanted a meltdown to after sitting on a plane that long. Owen slept 8 hours of the flight and Konnor a good 6 so it really wasn't all that bad.
We landed in LA and raced through customs. I may or may not have burst into tears when the customs officer handed us back our passports, looked at Owen and said "Welcome Home." Maybe just a few tears. We opted to stay the night in LA since it was 9 by the time we got done with customs. We headed to the hotel, grabbed some expensive hotel food, calmed our soooo done with it boys down and headed to bed. The next morning we boarded the plane that would bring us to St. Louis. Both boys slept the entire flight (maybe b/c they got up at 2). My Mom met us at the airport, my friend/fellow adoptive Mama Karrie took homecoming pictures for us and we headed home. Mark's parents met us at the house and we all got to visit for a little bit before crashing hard.
More to come.....
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